My @RUOKDay post ~ the little lioness

My @RUOKDay post


I’ve put myself through a lot this past 2 months.

Moved house.

Moved cities.

Away from my partner of a billion years.

In with a housemate. even though I don’t like people that much.

A new job.

Different social circles.

Lost 2 people in my circles to suicide.

No wonder I’m a little stressed at times.

But I have things in place.

A new gym.

I walk to and from work.

I have a GP. As of yesterday.

I’m getting help in re-implementing my stress management strategies. Like not being my harshest critic ALL the time. Oh and breathing every now and then.

Look after yourselves.

With pocket ninjas.

And kind words.

Don’t be afraid of seeking someone external. Someone neutral to talk through things with. Someone who isn’t caught up in it all with you. Who is trained to give you neutral, strategic advice. Or to just be an ear. To let you know that what you think you SHOULD do actually is right. And that you CAN do it.

And if you are asking people if they’re okay, be ready that they might actually so NO. And there may be tears. It’s like that sometimes. – 13 11 14



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7 comments for “My @RUOKDay post

  1. September 15, 2011 at 4:59 pm

    Oh and my pedometer is on my undies today because I’m wearing a dress.

    • September 15, 2011 at 11:23 pm

      Haha, golden =) I hope it’s a billowy dress, otherwise there’d be an odd bulge!

  2. September 15, 2011 at 5:19 pm

    Love. xxx

    PS, doesn’t the pedometer make your undies fall down?

    • September 15, 2011 at 5:25 pm

      :) nup. Love my Bonds undies :) basic black and keep their shape and elastic.

      Just have to not drop it in the loo. But that’s a risk no matter where I wear it!

      • September 15, 2011 at 5:33 pm

        I need to replace my underwear with the bonds stuff I suspect. Not dropping things in the loo is a good start!

        • September 15, 2011 at 5:37 pm

          oooh just checked the tag. These ones are from Target.

  3. September 15, 2011 at 9:41 pm

    That is a lot of stress. I’m sorry you’ve lost people dear to you. RUOK? I’ll listen if you want. Not sure I can do much more, but will listen. Peaceful dreams to you.

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